Back to School = A Time of Firsts

Back to School

Back to School

I’ll be honest, this back-to-school season is extremely overwhelming for this mom. I have crazy-emotions right now, mostly because this is a season of many important firsts for our family:

First day of Kindergarten: My daughter is starting Kindergarten on Monday. You’d think I would be okay with this concept; after all, she has three years of pre-school under her belt. But this time, in my mind, it’s different. Kindergarten is the first step toward graduating high school. The school is big, and there are tons of older kids to influence her. This Mama Bear is nervous. First day of Kindergarten also means…

First day of public school: I mentioned the three years of pre-school, well, they were small private schools. And these schools were small, high-security schools with strict rules. I don’t know enough about the new school to have an opinion, but I’m sure I will in no time. The teachers and parents seem great, so I am very hopeful and positive.  First day of public school also means…

First day of no uniform: Yes, my daughter went back-to-school shopping for the first time. My daughter now has choices and opinions about what she wears to school. While she is excited, I am not. I love school uniforms. I miss school uniforms. I am frightened by some of the clothing options for little girls. I guess I’ll have to create (and enforce) my own rules. The first day of no uniform means…

First day of marketing over-load: I loved the fact that my daughter’s private schools did not allow branded clothing or merchandise in the classroom. No SpongeBob lunch-boxes or iCarly backpacks.  The kids brought bags with solid colors, simple designs and no logos. Luckily, we found an appropriate backpack and lunch box for Kindergarten. Of course, this means I totally over-spent on my kid’s backpack, but it took persuasion for her to select the brightly colored (and pricey) backpack over the “Princess” option. And to top it all off…

First day at a new school in a new city: Yes, we just moved to this state, city and school district. Lots of big changes for my small family. But, I am so proud of my little girl. She is handling all of these changes with grace and tolerance… which is more than her mom can say.

– LTV Mom

This post was inspired by participation with the Yahoo! Mother Board, where 80 amazing women share thoughts on a single topic each month.  While Yahoo! is my client, these thoughts are mine and I did not receive compensation for writing this post.

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3 Responses to “Back to School = A Time of Firsts”


  1. 1 Samantha

    Ouch. It’s so true, the first day of Kindergarten is a magical, sad, happy day. But so is the first day of first grade, second grade… the first time she stands up in class, the first time she uses a Southern accent (oh wait..), the first time she takes a test.

    There are so many firsts ahead of you, not the least of which are all firsts your little family will experience together on this new journey.

    Miss you! xoxo s2+2

  2. 2 Amy, YodelingMamas

    No doubt this year will be full of new adventures for your whole family. Your daughter is lucky to have a mom quietly watching and helping her make good choices so when the time comes for her to make them on her own, you know she’ll do the same.

    Good luck!

  3. 3 YvonneinLA

    I agree, going from preschool to a big public school is hard. The other kids look so big and there are many things out of your control. But it’s an amazing time. They learn so much and they’re not the same little guys by the end of the year.

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