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Back to School = A Time of Firsts

Back to School

Back to School

I’ll be honest, this back-to-school season is extremely overwhelming for this mom. I have crazy-emotions right now, mostly because this is a season of many important firsts for our family:

First day of Kindergarten: My daughter is starting Kindergarten on Monday. You’d think I would be okay with this concept; after all, she has three years of pre-school under her belt. But this time, in my mind, it’s different. Kindergarten is the first step toward graduating high school. The school is big, and there are tons of older kids to influence her. This Mama Bear is nervous. First day of Kindergarten also means…

First day of public school: I mentioned the three years of pre-school, well, they were small private schools. And these schools were small, high-security schools with strict rules. I don’t know enough about the new school to have an opinion, but I’m sure I will in no time. The teachers and parents seem great, so I am very hopeful and positive.  First day of public school also means…

First day of no uniform: Yes, my daughter went back-to-school shopping for the first time. My daughter now has choices and opinions about what she wears to school. While she is excited, I am not. I love school uniforms. I miss school uniforms. I am frightened by some of the clothing options for little girls. I guess I’ll have to create (and enforce) my own rules. The first day of no uniform means…

First day of marketing over-load: I loved the fact that my daughter’s private schools did not allow branded clothing or merchandise in the classroom. No SpongeBob lunch-boxes or iCarly backpacks.  The kids brought bags with solid colors, simple designs and no logos. Luckily, we found an appropriate backpack and lunch box for Kindergarten. Of course, this means I totally over-spent on my kid’s backpack, but it took persuasion for her to select the brightly colored (and pricey) backpack over the “Princess” option. And to top it all off…

First day at a new school in a new city: Yes, we just moved to this state, city and school district. Lots of big changes for my small family. But, I am so proud of my little girl. She is handling all of these changes with grace and tolerance… which is more than her mom can say.

– LTV Mom

This post was inspired by participation with the Yahoo! Mother Board, where 80 amazing women share thoughts on a single topic each month.  While Yahoo! is my client, these thoughts are mine and I did not receive compensation for writing this post.

Photo credit: My Stock Photos via Flickr

From Silicon Valley to Silicon Hills

Austin, Texas

Austin, Texas

Well, it’s official. I am an Austinite. For those of you who you did not hear the news from me, I am so sorry. The whole thing happened quickly and quietly for many reasons. Quickly: we wanted to be somewhat settled before The Kid started Kindergarten in late August. Quietly: the entire process has been extremely emotional and stressful, and I really didn’t want/need the added attention. Plus, I hate goodbyes, and these goodbyes were just too hard.

Jon and I lived in California for 16 years, and they have been some of the happiest years of my life. We finally found where we belonged, built great careers, discovered new hobbies, bought a home, brought our daughter into the world, and met amazing friends… no, built a family… in California.

Since I left with unanswered questions, here is a quick Q&A:

Q: What? You moved?! A: Yes. We moved to Austin, Texas this week.

Q: Um, why? A: Job opportunities and closer to family.

Q: Are you leaving Voce? A: Thankfully, I will continue to work for Voce and service my clients from Austin. My colleagues at Voce have been very supportive of this change, and I am so appreciative. I am also beyond thankful that my clients are so supportive, which is a relief and a joy.

Q: Will you be visiting California? A: I will be in the Bay Area once a month for work. This actually is pretty cool because I will return sans family responsibilities, so I will have time for happy hours in Santana Row, dinners out in Palo Alto, and maybe even karaoke with Glennia.

Q: Was it hard to say good-bye? A: Oh yes. Beyond words. The hardest person to hug good-bye was my beautiful goddaughter. Well, I didn’t actually tell her goodbye, I told her good night. I am a chicken.

Q: How have people responded to the news? A: It’s been a mixed bag but mostly positive. Those who have been to Austin are excited or even jealous. Of course the Silicon Valley loyalists think we are crazy.

Q: Do you know anyone in Austin? A: Thankfully, yes. We have friends there; in fact, our first friends in California are now in Austin. Also, my cousin (and possibly my daughter’s favorite person on Earth) lives not too far away in Dallas.

Q: Who had the most surprising reaction? A: My mom-blogger friends. I was touched and humbled by their support, surprise, sadness and (in one case) tears. You have no idea how much you touched my heart. [Note: second runner-up goes to four-year-old Olivia who cried for 30 minutes when she heard the news. I love that kid!]

Q: Can we come visit you? A: Absolutely! Please! We will have a small apartment at first, but hope to be in a house by the time SXSW hits (because apparently we will have a houseful, so make your reservations soon!) Just make sure you give me enough warning so I don’t have to cancel playdates with Sandra Bullock’s kid or postpone my regular bike rides with Lance Armstrong.

Q: Are you going to buy a pickup truck? A: No.

Q: Are you going to wear cowboy boots? A: No.

Q: Are you going to start yelling “Hook ‘em Horns?” A: Hell no.

Q: Will you fly your Iowa State flag on game day? A: Hell yes. Even on Oct. 23 when the Cyclones roll into town for their annual slaughter.

Q: Do you blame UT for ruining the Big 12 conference? Q: Well, I would like to actually make friends here in Austin, so I will quickly move to the next question.

Q: When can we see you? A: You can see me every day on Facebook on Twitter or here on Laptop TV Mom. I will post updates and photos as long as you do the same!

Q: Are you excited? A: Actually, we are excited. Change is good. This much change at one time is stressful, but it can be good. But I will only accept change – and be excited – as long as we can continue friendship with the people we love.

- LTV Mom

Photo Credit: Wikipedia

Wordless Wednesday: My Sweet Girl

My Sweet Girl

My Sweet Girl

Wordless Wednesday: Fourth of July 2010

Sunny day at Dana Point, Calif.

Enjoying the waters of Orange County with best friends!

My California Girl!

My California Girl!

Wordless Wednesday: Friends

2010 Dance Recital

2010 Dance Recital

Our family loves Sidewalk Chalk!

Finally, we had a Silicon Valley day without rain. (Yeah, I do not pay Silicon Valley housing prices to get Seattle weather!) I was itching to get outside, but the kid wanted to stay inside to play. Desperate, I offered up a bike ride, a walk around the block, even a wagon ride. No dice… until I pulled out the magic idea: let’s decorate the driveway with sidewalk chalk!

The kid and I spent a good hour working on our masterpiece. We drew ourselves holding kites, tall apple trees, pink and purple flowers and a giant yellow and orange sun. It was so much fun to be outside, breathing fresh air, and sharing our creativity. We collaborated on the design and color choices, and laughed a lot! We were very proud of our accomplishment, and this mom will always love sidewalk chalk for outside activity and mother-daughter bonding!

– LTV Mom

Note: the sidewalk chalk was all mine, and Crayola was not part of this post.

Why I missed the 2010 Mom 2.0 Summit

I was really looking forward to attending the Mom 2.0 Summit this year. I purchased my conference ticket in December, I had my hotel booked, I was even going to travel with one of my favorite clients. It was going to be a great conference with some of my favorite blogging women.

And then, I learned my daughter’s dance team would be performing at Disneyland that same weekend. No contest.  (I love my fellow blogging-mamas… but I love my kid more.)  I quickly found a new owner for my Mom 2.0 ticket, and booked a flight to the OC. I’m not sure who was more excited: my little dancer or her mama (who has impressive stage-mom potential).

My husband and I gathered our best friends in Silicon Valley, and our best friends in Orange County, and we all trekked to Disneyland. We braved roller coasters, consumed cotton candy, hugged Mickey and Minnie, and marveled at my five-year-old dancing on stage! Our family had a good time at Disneyland and a great time watching the Big Show. My little girl may not be the next Cyd Charisse, but she is cute as a button!

Take a look at the video, and you too will understand why I can wait until 2011 to attend the Mom 2.0 Summit.

– LTV Mom

Video Credit: totally goes to Tulia’s Dad (not only is he a Bay Area firefighter and EMT, he’s awesome at getting video off his video camera and to a place where people can actually see it!)

Wordless Wednesday: My Kid and Travis Wall from SYTYCD

BlogHer Food 2009

I’m obviously not a food blogger, but I love to write about (and watch) food television.  I’m a long-time fan of shows like Top Chef, Chopped and Next Food Network Star. Recently, I’ve been sucked into the cake decorating shows, and Cake Boss is a fan-favorite in my house.

I admittedly watch a lot of television after the kid goes to bed and I go back to work (hence the moniker Laptop TV Mom).  But during waking hours, we limit TV-time in my house. My young daughter is allowed to watch cartoons during breakfast, but then has to “earn” TV time for her favorites like iCarly. But let’s be honest, there are times when this mama just wants to cuddle on the couch with her special girl, and chill with some TV. The challenge is finding TV that we both want to watch. And this is where cooking shows come in.

My 4.5 year-old daughter and I love to watch cooking shows together. We spend the time talking about the mystery ingredients, the decorations on the cakes, and which recipes we would eat for dinner. We can watch these shows, and I know there will be no sex, drugs and bad language. (Well, some of the shows have bad language, but I can usually work around a bleeped-out F-bomb.)

All that said, I’m also a closet foodie who loves to cook (and eat). I love cookbooks, entertaining, and experiencing new and exciting restaurants.

So, absorb all that information — and couple it with BlogHer Food 09 in San Francisco — and you have LTV Mom attending the upcoming conference for food bloggers. I am meeting up with cookbook author Gina von Esmarch, and we are going to see cooking demonstrations, learn about food photography, and meet the food bloggers we love to read.

But my favorite part? I am bringing my kid with me!  My hubby is out of town, so the kid and I are hitting Highway 280 and joining the foodies in  San Francisco. She says she wants to drink milk and watch people cook. (I told her the California Milk Board will be there, and milk is her absolute favorite drink!)

So, if you see a TV blogger (and closet foodie) with her super-cute kid, please say hello!

– LTV Mom

Photo Credit: BlogHer

SuperWhy is SuperWonderful

SuperWhy on PBS

SuperWhy on PBS

I grew up watching PBS television.  In fact, I vividly remember watching Sesame Street and Electric Company in my family room at home. Oddly enough, and much to my chagrin, my daughter was never into Sesame Street unless Elmo was on the screen.  But once she outgrew Elmo, we happily discovered Word World and then SuperWhy.

My kid did not watch lots of television as young toddler, but we did allow her to watch these select shows.  Looking back, it strikes me that I never questioned the quality or integrity of Word World or SuperWhy; I just trusted PBS to develop a product that was appropriate for kids.  In fact, to this day, PBS is the only network I turn on, walk away from the television, and know my daughter is watching a “safe” program.  (Before anyone asks, I usually walk away to cook dinner, wash clothes or another one of my domestic duties.)

Recently, the moms of Silicon Valley Moms Blog were invited to a special evening with the creators of SuperWhy. I tell you what, I have a whole new level of respect for the show and the brilliant *mothers* behind the educational and creative content. Here’s a snapshot of what we learned about PBS and SuperWhy programming:

  • PBS does not view kids as consumers, rather as “citizens of learning.”
  • There are more than 60 drafts of each 30-minute episode.
  • SuperWhy is designed to teach kids word strategies, and each character teaches a different critical reading skill.
  • Each episode of SuperWhy is designed to teach learning through problem-solving; in fact, “it’s not just memorizing, we want the kids to learn what we are trying to teach them.”
  • Whyatt Beanstalk is the preschool version of Zac Efron.
  • SuperWhy was created because “words don’t have power until we read them; we can change a story by changing the words.”
  • Media is a powerful force on kids; when Fonzie took out a library card, teen ownership of library cards grew by 500 percent.

Did you also know:

  • PBS wants to build relationships with parents, the goal is to develop “partners” with PBS programming.
  • SuperWhy has created reading camps to inspire kids to love reading and books.
  • PBS Kids has created online games to reinforce learning from all SuperWhy episodes.
  • There also is an online “Child Development Tracker” to help parents develop customized at-home activities for kids of all ages.

The folks from PBS also took the opportunity to ask the room of mom-bloggers what kind of tools and resources we could use to help extend learning from the television into our homes:

  • How can PBS supplement your child’s learning with SuperWhy?  Workbooks? Downloadable content?
  • They also sent us home with workbooks and resources to encourage summer reading.

If you have ideas or feedback to help PBS and parents work together, the folks at PBS are readily available. Here are Twitter handles: PBS Parents, Jeannine Harvey, Kevin Dando, Stephanie Aaronson, and Angela Santomero.

– LTV Mom